It is extremely tempting to get back
with an ex, because a known devil is better than an unknown one. Here are
reasons why you should stay out of touch… Have you ever been treated like a
backup plan or been in a relationship that was emotionally taxing /abusive or
both. Well,you’re not an exception. But the one thing you 
really need to do is,
follow the No Contact Rule. This age-old resolution spells never keep in touch
with your ex because, no two exes can ever stay friends without one being
emotionally used by the other.There’s always one who moves on and the other who lingers
on. If you still think were wrong, here’s why you should follow the No Contact
Rule. To move on If you are sure about moving on and starting afresh, say never
to see again instead of goodbye. No two exes can just be friends. To walk out
of a relationship completely is an important step. It may make one of you miss
your relationship and want to come back while the other person may think
otherwise. Broken memories Every time you talk to your ex, chances are you’d be
reminded of some memory from the past. While it may just be another happy memory
for your ex, you may want to relive it. Also, even if you have to rebuild new
memories, you’ll be constantly comparing it to your past. Frustrating to see
him/her move on Your ex may be extremely comfortable telling you who he/she is
dating. You, unable to be the friend they want you to be, will be left weeping
alone. Even if the other person is not in a relationship, imagine hearing about
their flirty tales! Wouldn’t that break your heart. The on-and-off curse
Staying in touch with your ex could spark up the chemistry, but only when one
of you is lonely. And once that phase is over, things go back to square one.
The result you’d be in an on-off relationship, with no clarity about where you
stand. Also, would you be comfortable in a no strings-attached relationship
while you feel strongly for the other person. Think about it! You lose
prospective partners just because you are in touch with your ex, you’d be bound
by a moral obligation to not date anyone else. Imagine, the only reason you are
not with someone who may be more loving is because you don’t want to break away
from an ex, who has moved on completely. But just to remind you, while you stay
miserable, your ex may be having fun.
really need to do is,
follow the No Contact Rule. This age-old resolution spells never keep in touch
with your ex because, no two exes can ever stay friends without one being
emotionally used by the other.There’s always one who moves on and the other who lingers
on. If you still think were wrong, here’s why you should follow the No Contact
Rule. To move on If you are sure about moving on and starting afresh, say never
to see again instead of goodbye. No two exes can just be friends. To walk out
of a relationship completely is an important step. It may make one of you miss
your relationship and want to come back while the other person may think
otherwise. Broken memories Every time you talk to your ex, chances are you’d be
reminded of some memory from the past. While it may just be another happy memory
for your ex, you may want to relive it. Also, even if you have to rebuild new
memories, you’ll be constantly comparing it to your past. Frustrating to see
him/her move on Your ex may be extremely comfortable telling you who he/she is
dating. You, unable to be the friend they want you to be, will be left weeping
alone. Even if the other person is not in a relationship, imagine hearing about
their flirty tales! Wouldn’t that break your heart. The on-and-off curse
Staying in touch with your ex could spark up the chemistry, but only when one
of you is lonely. And once that phase is over, things go back to square one.
The result you’d be in an on-off relationship, with no clarity about where you
stand. Also, would you be comfortable in a no strings-attached relationship
while you feel strongly for the other person. Think about it! You lose
prospective partners just because you are in touch with your ex, you’d be bound
by a moral obligation to not date anyone else. Imagine, the only reason you are
not with someone who may be more loving is because you don’t want to break away
from an ex, who has moved on completely. But just to remind you, while you stay
miserable, your ex may be having fun.
How
to keep off
1. Use strong words to communicate
that you need to stop talking.
2. Do not attend calls or reply to messages
even if they initiate it.
3. For some time, avoid places where you are
bound to bump into your ex.
4. Don’t allow mutual friends to
play elves. Tell them politely to stay away from your personal matter.
5. Don’t respond to the sad status
messages on their social networking sites or the tales they’ve spread about
their heartbreak. They’ll get over it in no time.
What do you think?
What if u don't find any other person like ur ex and u keep missing him or her. What should d person do
ReplyDeletewhat if when you go back, you find out he or she no longer wants you in his life but because you still want the relationship, the person starts using you as a standby generator!
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