Oh yes they said 'Hell has no fury compared to the anger of a woman'. This is a typical example;
Woman sets self, hubby ablaze
• Unhappy about second woman with children for her husband
• Man’s family refuses her to adopt a child
• Man’s family refuses her to adopt a child
They died together – by fire. The house they both shared as man and
wife is also in ruins, burnt to the ground. As at the time of writing
this report, the charred body of the woman lay morbidly in the midst of
the debris. Approaching the burnt building, certain eerie feeling hits
with a good impact. The man, who was saved from dying with his wife
inside the fire, died on the way to hospital. “You can say both of them
died together,” observed a shocked, grieving neighbour.
The puzzle now is not just that the couple, Patience and Monday
Chilaekezie died by fire. To the Umuodu community in Ezinihitte Local
Government Area of Imo State, it is that they can hardly understand why
Patience could have been so incensed and callous to the extent of
setting herself and her husband on fire.
Chidinma, Monday’s younger sister’s accounts of events leading to the
tragic end, indicate that Patience had carefully planned it all.
According to her, Patience had been grieving that her husband of 12
years had decided to send her away. It was learnt that the couple had
married for that long without children. As Chidinma said, her brother
had made up his mind to bring in another woman within the community who
was pregnant for him.
It was said that Patience, a petty trader, had lured her husband into
their house, poured petrol on both of them and then set the house on
fire. It was also said that while they and the house were burning, she
held fast onto her husband to ensure that he did not escape the inferno.
Saturday Sun gathered that neighbors, who noticed the flame
and heard the cry for help, were able to rescue the man who later died
on his way to the hospital. Community members, who rushed to see
Patience’s charred body when the fire had burnt out, was gripped by fear
and horror.
Chidinma further told Saturday Sun that her brother was able
to run out from the inferno alive but died 20 minutes later on the way
as they were rushing him to hospital.
In tears, she recalled that on the day of the incident, being January
11, 2014, her brother, who was an automobile technician, had gone to
his shop as he did every day. His wife, popularly known as Madam Oil,
had also left the house for her shop at a local market. However, a few
hours later, she came back to the house. She was said to have been seen
with a keg that, in the instance, could be containing petrol, with which
she later sprinkled round the house.
According to Chidinma: “She called my brother that there was an
emergency and that he should rush back home. I was at home then, but in
the next building. He was the one that told me that his wife just called
that there is an emergency. While he was stepping into the house, I
heard him call on his wife that he can perceive the smell of fuel all
over the place. In less than one minute after he went inside the house,
the house started to burn.
“I heard my brother screaming for help. I think by then he was
struggling with his wife. We were able to reach them and my brother was
brought out alive, while his wife was burnt beyond recognition. Shortly
before he died, he told us that his wife had finally fulfilled her
promise. My brother said that his wife was threatening that she would
kill him and kill herself too.”
On a possible reason she could have done that, Chidinma said: “They
had been married for years without any child. This has caused a lot of
problem between the couple to the extent that my brother secretly
married another wife. The woman gave birth to two girls and is pregnant
now with the third child. When she finally discovered, she was
devastated because she had severally pleaded with her husband to allow
her adopt a child. The last family meeting we had, she was told to leave
her husband’s house if she was not ready to accommodate another woman
who had given her husband children. Since that day, she had been living a
secluded life, most especially when the family made it clear that they
would not accept a bastard as a child in the name of adoption. Nobody
knew that she would get to this point of committing suicide.”
Another eyewitness, who is also a neighbor, claimed that he saw the
deceased sprinkle fuel round the house. “Initially, I thought it was
holy water because she had turned into a prayer warrior ever since she
could not get pregnant. She was always depressed because her fellow
women in the community jeered at her especially when they heard that she
refused to allow the other woman to live in their husband’s house. We
were all shocked to realize that she actually planned to kill herself
and the husband.”
A woman, who later introduced herself as Mama Chima, claimed that
days before the incident, Patience was selling off her wares at a
give-away price. “It was more like an auction market. When I asked her
what was going on, she said that she was trying to change to another
line of business. She was always crying, and mumbling to herself.”
Also at the scene was the second wife who wept uncontrollably. “What
kind of bad luck is this? Who is going to take care of my children and
me? He promised to drive the other woman, so that we can have peace in
this house. It is nobody’s fault that God did not give her a child,” the
unfortunate woman lamented.
Imo State Police Command Public Relations Officer, DSP Jane Elemoko, confirmed the incident to Saturady Sun.
Na wa for women ooooo... But I feel her pain sha... It is not easy to be married for years without children.
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